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Post by Deleted on Mar 23, 2017 13:18:57 GMT
BogoGog24I can't tell you what to do, buf I'm going to agree with everyone else and say that Tim sounds like the one you have the best chemistry with. Straight dope: Do, however, consider the consequences if you tell him how you feel but he only thinks of you as his close friend. There's nothing worse than an awkward atmosphere at the office. Before you open up to him, maybe try dropping hints and try to guage his reaction. Good luck.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 23, 2017 19:31:22 GMT
Maybe Harvey and Bogo should hook up? Y'all seem to agree on everything.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 23, 2017 20:28:28 GMT
Maybe Harvey and Bogo should hook up? Y'all seem to agree on everything. I'm sure the 4000+ miles could be a slight problem
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Post by Deleted on Mar 23, 2017 21:48:31 GMT
It might help the relationship. Haha. Bogo.....go for the hot guy. You know you will anyway.
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Post by 332 on Mar 23, 2017 22:37:15 GMT
my crush's all think of me platonic or i don't exist. i am socially awkward shy around people both girls,guy, i am somewhat of a loner so being alone is my personality i passion for music and taping music making CD/DVD'S and trying to sing but i am awful at singing coming in to early off pinch more like finger nails on a chalk board.
i was friends with women and me it was it more than platonic for her it was platonic and tried to spend time with her outside of her business and and one point in time i think dropped hint i was interested by saying i want her to be my girlfriend and she laughed if remember correct this was about 3 three months after we met so one day about 5 months after we met i put my hand on her leg when we were alone in the car on drive and right away she said remove your hand. the rest of the drive was okay still talked. it was the next time we saw each other needless to say it didn't end well as i was greeted with your not welcome here. the awkwardness after for me was high would be a understatement.
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Post by stardust x on Apr 9, 2017 20:40:40 GMT
aha i'm quite late to this thread but like why not answer cause i have lots to sayyy there was this guy at my school called joe , and i'd thought he was quite attractive for a while , but he absolutely hated me and i had no idea why . he was going out with best friend , who is a female , at the time , and because she was my best friend and we were so close we would hang out together all the time and have sleepovers as you do , which obviously made him quite jealous which i find understandable now but back then i never understood why he didn't like me . when that relationship came to an end a few months ago because of jealousy in the relationship which was ultimately caused by me he began to speak to me casually and we'd just had little chats whenever we saw each other in class which was usual for mates but he'd always be a little bit flirty and i thought it was funny . a few weeks later , he began to date another one of my close friends . as i was now closer to joe , i was invited out with the couple a lot , sometimes just as a three . however , this one day when we all went down to the park together , his girlfriend and her best friend were there , as well as my best friend . as it got colder on the park , i began to complain about how cold i was . he then took off his jumper and gave it to me and he went without , which i thought was just him having a bit of a joke but i wore it and it smelt really nice which sounds weird now i say it but it was cool haha . we all sat down on a bench and he sat next to me as his girlfriend left with her friend , and my friend left and it ended up just being us two on this park bench at sunset . he then lay sideways across the bench and lay with his head on my lap and told me he'd just washed his hair and told me to stroke it , so i did and we were just there like an old married couple haha . that's when i started getting a little crush on him , and i'd start to feel butterflies whenever he spoke to me and it was just fun to have a crush . i started listening to contagious and hot and i just thought about him all the time. the next week , me and my friend were sat in english and we happened to look over at him , and he was clearly looking at me , but looked away immediately afterwards . i'd noticed him looking in the weeks before this , but i never thought anything of it to be honest . however , we kept sitting there taking a tally of everytime we caught him looking at me , and we managed to get to 37 before the end of class . we confronted him at the end , and he simply said he was looking at the window , although my seat is nowhere near the windows and he looked away everytime i looked at him , meaning that couldn't be true ? the final issue is when a history trip was offered to us a few months ago which would mean going to the battlefields of the somme in france for a week with school . this would also mean sharing a bedroom with a class member . nobody in our class volunteered to go , but i knew my friend from english class was going , so i stepped up to go on the trip . he then asked me who was going on the trip , and i just said me and my friend , and he just repeated , 'so you're going?' and i just said yeah and left class . he then came up to me the next day and said that he was now going on the trip , and i asked him who was going with him and he said 'you' , meaning that i'm the only person he's gonna know for this entire week long trip ? overall , i just don't know what to do with the kid to be honest . he's still going out with one of my closest friends and saying he's straight but i can't ignore all these signs , unless i'm just being typical me and reading too much into simple things ? i don't know , my hands are so sweaty writing this i just get so flustered
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Post by ben545 on Apr 9, 2017 20:54:17 GMT
aha i'm quite late to this thread but like why not answer cause i have lots to sayyy there was this guy at my school called joe , and i'd thought he was quite attractive for a while , but he absolutely hated me and i had no idea why . he was going out with best friend , who is a female , at the time , and because she was my best friend and we were so close we would hang out together all the time and have sleepovers as you do , which obviously made him quite jealous which i find understandable now but back then i never understood why he didn't like me . when that relationship came to an end a few months ago because of jealousy in the relationship which was ultimately caused by me he began to speak to me casually and we'd just had little chats whenever we saw each other in class which was usual for mates but he'd always be a little bit flirty and i thought it was funny . a few weeks later , he began to date another one of my close friends . as i was now closer to joe , i was invited out with the couple a lot , sometimes just as a three . however , this one day when we all went down to the park together , his girlfriend and her best friend were there , as well as my best friend . as it got colder on the park , i began to complain about how cold i was . he then took off his jumper and gave it to me and he went without , which i thought was just him having a bit of a joke but i wore it and it smelt really nice which sounds weird now i say it but it was cool haha . we all sat down on a bench and he sat next to me as his girlfriend left with her friend , and my friend left and it ended up just being us two on this park bench at sunset . he then lay sideways across the bench and lay with his head on my lap and told me he'd just washed his hair and told me to stroke it , so i did and we were just there like an old married couple haha . that's when i started getting a little crush on him , and i'd start to feel butterflies whenever he spoke to me and it was just fun to have a crush . i started listening to contagious and hot and i just thought about him all the time. the next week , me and my friend were sat in english and we happened to look over at him , and he was clearly looking at me , but looked away immediately afterwards . i'd noticed him looking in the weeks before this , but i never thought anything of it to be honest . however , we kept sitting there taking a tally of everytime we caught him looking at me , and we managed to get to 37 before the end of class . we confronted him at the end , and he simply said he was looking at the window , although my seat is nowhere near the windows and he looked away everytime i looked at him , meaning that couldn't be true ? the final issue is when a history trip was offered to us a few months ago which would mean going to the battlefields of the somme in france for a week with school . this would also mean sharing a bedroom with a class member . nobody in our class volunteered to go , but i knew my friend from english class was going , so i stepped up to go on the trip . he then asked me who was going on the trip , and i just said me and my friend , and he just repeated , 'so you're going?' and i just said yeah and left class . he then came up to me the next day and said that he was now going on the trip , and i asked him who was going with him and he said 'you' , meaning that i'm the only person he's gonna know for this entire week long trip ? overall , i just don't know what to do with the kid to be honest . he's still going out with one of my closest friends and saying he's straight but i can't ignore all these signs , unless i'm just being typical me and reading too much into simple things ? i don't know , my hands are so sweaty writing this i just get so flustered I think he might just be being friendly. I wouldn't read too much into it unless he makes a move on you. Friendly is good.
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Post by stardust x on Apr 10, 2017 8:29:41 GMT
aha i'm quite late to this thread but like why not answer cause i have lots to sayyy there was this guy at my school called joe , and i'd thought he was quite attractive for a while , but he absolutely hated me and i had no idea why . he was going out with best friend , who is a female , at the time , and because she was my best friend and we were so close we would hang out together all the time and have sleepovers as you do , which obviously made him quite jealous which i find understandable now but back then i never understood why he didn't like me . when that relationship came to an end a few months ago because of jealousy in the relationship which was ultimately caused by me he began to speak to me casually and we'd just had little chats whenever we saw each other in class which was usual for mates but he'd always be a little bit flirty and i thought it was funny . a few weeks later , he began to date another one of my close friends . as i was now closer to joe , i was invited out with the couple a lot , sometimes just as a three . however , this one day when we all went down to the park together , his girlfriend and her best friend were there , as well as my best friend . as it got colder on the park , i began to complain about how cold i was . he then took off his jumper and gave it to me and he went without , which i thought was just him having a bit of a joke but i wore it and it smelt really nice which sounds weird now i say it but it was cool haha . we all sat down on a bench and he sat next to me as his girlfriend left with her friend , and my friend left and it ended up just being us two on this park bench at sunset . he then lay sideways across the bench and lay with his head on my lap and told me he'd just washed his hair and told me to stroke it , so i did and we were just there like an old married couple haha . that's when i started getting a little crush on him , and i'd start to feel butterflies whenever he spoke to me and it was just fun to have a crush . i started listening to contagious and hot and i just thought about him all the time. the next week , me and my friend were sat in english and we happened to look over at him , and he was clearly looking at me , but looked away immediately afterwards . i'd noticed him looking in the weeks before this , but i never thought anything of it to be honest . however , we kept sitting there taking a tally of everytime we caught him looking at me , and we managed to get to 37 before the end of class . we confronted him at the end , and he simply said he was looking at the window , although my seat is nowhere near the windows and he looked away everytime i looked at him , meaning that couldn't be true ? the final issue is when a history trip was offered to us a few months ago which would mean going to the battlefields of the somme in france for a week with school . this would also mean sharing a bedroom with a class member . nobody in our class volunteered to go , but i knew my friend from english class was going , so i stepped up to go on the trip . he then asked me who was going on the trip , and i just said me and my friend , and he just repeated , 'so you're going?' and i just said yeah and left class . he then came up to me the next day and said that he was now going on the trip , and i asked him who was going with him and he said 'you' , meaning that i'm the only person he's gonna know for this entire week long trip ? overall , i just don't know what to do with the kid to be honest . he's still going out with one of my closest friends and saying he's straight but i can't ignore all these signs , unless i'm just being typical me and reading too much into simple things ? i don't know , my hands are so sweaty writing this i just get so flustered I think he might just be being friendly. I wouldn't read too much into it unless he makes a move on you. Friendly is good. i know but it's just hard to ignore him to be honest ... thought it was better to get some professional bandaids advice haha
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Post by Deleted on Apr 10, 2017 12:07:21 GMT
Life is funny. I went into hospital the other week with an abscess the size of a baseball. Came out with a lonely heart.
I have a crush on an anaesthetist. I felt a spark when the prettiest, sweetest girl came to my bed and introduced herself before taking me to surgery. Our time was short but we made a lot of eye contact, joked around about hospital administation and how I'd been asked the same routine questions like 8 times. I know her first name and I know what her favourite TV show is, haha.
Of course there's a rational part of me that says some doctors have a really nice "bedside manner", and I might be confusing that for something else. On the other hand my friend met her partner under very similar circumstances - she was a patient, he was her surgeon. Whatever, it doesn't even matter because I probably won't ever see this girl again. All I know is crushes can suck ass and I wish I didn't have these feelings. Physical pain is a welcome distraction right now.
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Post by Becky on Apr 10, 2017 16:41:02 GMT
aha i'm quite late to this thread but like why not answer cause i have lots to sayyy there was this guy at my school called joe , and i'd thought he was quite attractive for a while , but he absolutely hated me and i had no idea why . he was going out with best friend , who is a female , at the time , and because she was my best friend and we were so close we would hang out together all the time and have sleepovers as you do , which obviously made him quite jealous which i find understandable now but back then i never understood why he didn't like me . when that relationship came to an end a few months ago because of jealousy in the relationship which was ultimately caused by me he began to speak to me casually and we'd just had little chats whenever we saw each other in class which was usual for mates but he'd always be a little bit flirty and i thought it was funny . a few weeks later , he began to date another one of my close friends . as i was now closer to joe , i was invited out with the couple a lot , sometimes just as a three . however , this one day when we all went down to the park together , his girlfriend and her best friend were there , as well as my best friend . as it got colder on the park , i began to complain about how cold i was . he then took off his jumper and gave it to me and he went without , which i thought was just him having a bit of a joke but i wore it and it smelt really nice which sounds weird now i say it but it was cool haha . we all sat down on a bench and he sat next to me as his girlfriend left with her friend , and my friend left and it ended up just being us two on this park bench at sunset . he then lay sideways across the bench and lay with his head on my lap and told me he'd just washed his hair and told me to stroke it , so i did and we were just there like an old married couple haha . that's when i started getting a little crush on him , and i'd start to feel butterflies whenever he spoke to me and it was just fun to have a crush . i started listening to contagious and hot and i just thought about him all the time. the next week , me and my friend were sat in english and we happened to look over at him , and he was clearly looking at me , but looked away immediately afterwards . i'd noticed him looking in the weeks before this , but i never thought anything of it to be honest . however , we kept sitting there taking a tally of everytime we caught him looking at me , and we managed to get to 37 before the end of class . we confronted him at the end , and he simply said he was looking at the window , although my seat is nowhere near the windows and he looked away everytime i looked at him , meaning that couldn't be true ? the final issue is when a history trip was offered to us a few months ago which would mean going to the battlefields of the somme in france for a week with school . this would also mean sharing a bedroom with a class member . nobody in our class volunteered to go , but i knew my friend from english class was going , so i stepped up to go on the trip . he then asked me who was going on the trip , and i just said me and my friend , and he just repeated , 'so you're going?' and i just said yeah and left class . he then came up to me the next day and said that he was now going on the trip , and i asked him who was going with him and he said 'you' , meaning that i'm the only person he's gonna know for this entire week long trip ? overall , i just don't know what to do with the kid to be honest . he's still going out with one of my closest friends and saying he's straight but i can't ignore all these signs , unless i'm just being typical me and reading too much into simple things ? i don't know , my hands are so sweaty writing this i just get so flustered He could just be being friendly but personally I don't know any guys who would act like this with one of their guy friends. That's not to say that guys don't act like this with each other, I just don't know of any. Also, because he's dating a girl who is also one of your best friends, he may feel he can act like this because there would be no question about his actions or feelings. Does he know you're gay?
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Post by stardust x on Apr 10, 2017 21:14:51 GMT
aha i'm quite late to this thread but like why not answer cause i have lots to sayyy there was this guy at my school called joe , and i'd thought he was quite attractive for a while , but he absolutely hated me and i had no idea why . he was going out with best friend , who is a female , at the time , and because she was my best friend and we were so close we would hang out together all the time and have sleepovers as you do , which obviously made him quite jealous which i find understandable now but back then i never understood why he didn't like me . when that relationship came to an end a few months ago because of jealousy in the relationship which was ultimately caused by me he began to speak to me casually and we'd just had little chats whenever we saw each other in class which was usual for mates but he'd always be a little bit flirty and i thought it was funny . a few weeks later , he began to date another one of my close friends . as i was now closer to joe , i was invited out with the couple a lot , sometimes just as a three . however , this one day when we all went down to the park together , his girlfriend and her best friend were there , as well as my best friend . as it got colder on the park , i began to complain about how cold i was . he then took off his jumper and gave it to me and he went without , which i thought was just him having a bit of a joke but i wore it and it smelt really nice which sounds weird now i say it but it was cool haha . we all sat down on a bench and he sat next to me as his girlfriend left with her friend , and my friend left and it ended up just being us two on this park bench at sunset . he then lay sideways across the bench and lay with his head on my lap and told me he'd just washed his hair and told me to stroke it , so i did and we were just there like an old married couple haha . that's when i started getting a little crush on him , and i'd start to feel butterflies whenever he spoke to me and it was just fun to have a crush . i started listening to contagious and hot and i just thought about him all the time. the next week , me and my friend were sat in english and we happened to look over at him , and he was clearly looking at me , but looked away immediately afterwards . i'd noticed him looking in the weeks before this , but i never thought anything of it to be honest . however , we kept sitting there taking a tally of everytime we caught him looking at me , and we managed to get to 37 before the end of class . we confronted him at the end , and he simply said he was looking at the window , although my seat is nowhere near the windows and he looked away everytime i looked at him , meaning that couldn't be true ? the final issue is when a history trip was offered to us a few months ago which would mean going to the battlefields of the somme in france for a week with school . this would also mean sharing a bedroom with a class member . nobody in our class volunteered to go , but i knew my friend from english class was going , so i stepped up to go on the trip . he then asked me who was going on the trip , and i just said me and my friend , and he just repeated , 'so you're going?' and i just said yeah and left class . he then came up to me the next day and said that he was now going on the trip , and i asked him who was going with him and he said 'you' , meaning that i'm the only person he's gonna know for this entire week long trip ? overall , i just don't know what to do with the kid to be honest . he's still going out with one of my closest friends and saying he's straight but i can't ignore all these signs , unless i'm just being typical me and reading too much into simple things ? i don't know , my hands are so sweaty writing this i just get so flustered He could just be being friendly but personally I don't know any guys who would act like this with one of their guy friends. That's not to say that guys don't act like this with each other, I just don't know of any. Also, because he's dating a girl who is also one of your best friends, he may feel he can act like this because there would be no question about his actions or feelings. Does he know you're gay? yeah , everyone knows aha . he's never seemed particularly bothered or funny about it so i guess he's cool with it . the only issues with all of this is that friend in the middle , and their relationship isn't exactly brilliant so it's not something i'd see him using as an excuse for being friendly ? now that i read through what i've said later it makes me sound so delusional but i swear it's not like that
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Post by Deleted on Apr 11, 2017 3:58:58 GMT
Life is funny. I went into hospital the other week with an abscess the size of a baseball. Came out with a lonely heart. I have a crush on an anaesthetist. I felt a spark when the prettiest, sweetest girl came to my bed and introduced herself before taking me to surgery. Our time was short but we made a lot of eye contact, joked around about hospital administation and how I'd been asked the same routine questions like 8 times. I know her first name and I know what her favourite TV show is, haha. Of course there's a rational part of me that says some doctors have a really nice "bedside manner", and I might be confusing that for something else. On the other hand my friend met her partner under very similar circumstances - she was a patient, he was her surgeon. Whatever, it doesn't even matter because I probably won't ever see this girl again. All I know is crushes can suck ass and I wish I didn't have these feelings. Physical pain is a welcome distraction right now. Get better Harv!
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Post by Becky on Apr 11, 2017 14:10:23 GMT
He could just be being friendly but personally I don't know any guys who would act like this with one of their guy friends. That's not to say that guys don't act like this with each other, I just don't know of any. Also, because he's dating a girl who is also one of your best friends, he may feel he can act like this because there would be no question about his actions or feelings. Does he know you're gay? yeah , everyone knows aha . he's never seemed particularly bothered or funny about it so i guess he's cool with it . the only issues with all of this is that friend in the middle , and their relationship isn't exactly brilliant so it's not something i'd see him using as an excuse for being friendly ? now that i read through what i've said later it makes me sound so delusional but i swear it's not like that Haha you don't sound delusional! I suppose you have to think about the fact that he's in a relationship with one of your close friends so even if he is being flirty, so what? From what you've said it sounds a little flirty, but if he knows you're gay then maybe he thinks he can be like that because he has a girlfriend. He sounds like a confusing guy haha
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Post by BogoGog24 on Apr 11, 2017 18:02:36 GMT
It's funny you say this because I kind of have been wanting to write one but just haven't found the time yet. I will s**n though I just came back from working a remote production with the super hot guy OMG guys I can't He drove us there and after I said "thanks for driving the bus" (FYI it wasn't actually a bus, it was just a joke )
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