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Post by Deleted on Jun 21, 2017 21:51:41 GMT
Adore Delano/Danny Noriega (in and out of drag) Can't think of anyone else just now My gf gave me a "pass" for Adore/Danny which I've never heard of, but is apparently a thing.. Celebrity Free Pass ... so that's fun
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Post by Avengium on Jun 24, 2017 11:44:30 GMT
Celebrity free passes are real?
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Post by Deleted on Jun 26, 2017 11:09:51 GMT
Celebrity free passes are real? Apparently I've never even heard of it before
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Post by Deleted on Jul 13, 2017 10:36:10 GMT
These past few months have been difficult for me but I'm going back on my feet more and more each day, mostly thanks to an unexpected support I got from a particular person. I would've never thought I'd get colours back in my life and stars in my eyes but that's how I feel now.. you know who you are... and I'm so thankful for knowing you..
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Post by Avengium on Jul 18, 2017 13:47:14 GMT
@safira , your crush could read this forum too? Is a forum member? @xsafirax
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Post by BogoGog24 on Jul 22, 2017 19:58:57 GMT
I've got another Crush update Ok so my birthday was last month and my best friend was going to be in Florida at that time, so I asked my friend Tim if he'd want to do something with me and he said sure. My brother works for the New York Yankees so he was able to get us free tickets for the game which happened to be on my birthday. So Tim made the trek with me to the train station and we took a train to New York. We met up with my brother and saw the game. Because of the tickets my brother was able to get, we had access to this VIP lounge and could get free popcorn and soda. My brother and Tim were talking about sports and stuff the whole time. We had a good time at the game and then took the train back home. We went to Friendly's for ice cream and Tim treated me. He also got me a stuffed Mickey Mouse because I said that's what I wanted for my birthday We drove back to his apartment and when I said goodbye to him I kissed him on the cheek and then I thought "Oh maybe I shouldn't have done that, maybe he thinks that's weird" and then when he hugged me he kissed me on the top of my head and it was really sweet We hugged each other a bunch of times before I finally left and went home. We haven't done anything together outside of work since then. So I think the last time I said I don't like Z much anymore... well, that's a lie. Things have become more and more complicated (no pun intended lol). I don't know what it is about him, but I just like him so much. Things have become hairy now because now a couple of my co-workers know about my crushes. Basically the other day I was outside for lunch and Z was sitting there talking with his friends. They were asking him about what his ideal girl is like and he said all this stuff that was actually rather unrealistic but maybe he was only kidding, I don't know. But it made me kind of upset or nervous I guess because they were talking about this and then I felt like I didn't fit into any of the things he was describing. His mother was coming in that day to tape one of our shows and she was bringing a young woman with her, they were joking about trying to set him up with her, and that's why they were talking about this. I started getting really nervous at this point, like so nervous I felt like I was having a panic attack, about to throw up, and everything. I was nervous about his mom coming in. I was trying to record news with one of my co-workers who I'll call Abby, she's always been very nice to me and kind of like a mom. She noticed I was nervous and that I kept looking out the door to see if Z was there and so I finally broke down and told her what was going on and that I have a massive crush on Z and she was trying to give me some advice. She also already knew that I like Tim. By the time I had to go and tape this show, I was still nervous. His mom came in, I wasn't introduced to her. We did the show (Z was also on camera with me for this OF COURSE). I joked with him that it must have felt weird to him because it was like seeing his mom on TV and he's like "Yeah it is kind of weird." So whatever, we did the show and that was that. The whole time I kept wondering if I should say something to his friends about the setting him up thing because I thought "Well what if he gets set up with somebody and then I miss my chance? I'll regret never saying anything." So then I was nervous about THAT. So at the end of the day, I knew his lady friend was going to be leaving at the same time I was, so I tried to coordinate it so that I could catch her before she left. We went to talk outside in the parking lot and of course his fucking mom is STILL there. We moved further away so she wouldn't hear us. So I told her the whole thing about how I like Z and everything and she's like "Oh I was just teasing him about that." And I asked if he was looking to date or anything she's like "I don't think so, he's young and he's just living his life, enjoying time with his friends." And she tried to give me some advice about how to deal with him, like to just be myself and also with Tim that if things aren't going how I want them to, to sit down with him and talk with him. So basically where I'm at now - I'm thinking about the next time Tim and I are out together that I finally tell him how I feel. Because I really think at this point he likely does reciprocate my feelings too. He's always touching me and stuff, like the other day I wore a dress to work which is really rare for me and everyone said I looked cute and adorable and Tim immediately told me he liked my dress and I thought he was going to high five me but instead he patted me on the head, which he always does a lot. Of course the ONE person I wanted to see me in my dress (Z) did not, or at least not really. I had no opportunities to really get in front of him so he could see me, but maybe he did see it and I just didn't know, but yeah that was super annoying. So anyway, I think I should probably tell Tim how I feel because at this rate, he is never going to make the first move. And of course from there, even if he likes me back, it will be difficult to figure out what to do because it may make things messy to start dating when we work together. That's the good thing with Z, is that he and I rarely have to work that closely together, so it wouldn't be as huge of an issue. On the other hand, I also do really like Z a lot. Unfortunately I just don't think I am his type but then again he isn't really mine either, yet I like him. And honestly it annoys me a lot that I haven't had really any dating experience and so I don't just want to limit myself to one person. Z and I are actually far closer in age than me and Tim. But I think we could be in different places in our lives where Z just wants to hang out with his friends and enjoy his life and he's not concerned with dating right now, whereas I really am looking for a serious relationship with someone, or at least to date someone for a prolonged period of time. I just want some experience of dating before settling down with any one person. And I think Tim would be a really great first boyfriend for me, if someday in the future maybe it didn't work out and then I went out with Z, who knows. I'm just honestly really confused and conflicted with how I feel. I love Tim more than I've ever loved anyone. I sometimes do get the feeling he may be "the one" and that we're going to get married. But on the other hand, like I said, I don't want to only go out with just him and never get to "play the field" and have other experiences with different guys before just settling down with him. I like Z a lot but I think we feel a little awkward around each other and kind of hold back from each other for some weird reason. I don't get a lot of opportunities to really talk to him, unless I joined them for lunch, which his friend said she'd like me to do if I wanted. But I would just feel weird, like as though I'm intruding. I feel like he wouldn't want me there. I almost wonder too if maybe Tim and I would start dating and then maybe Z would feel comfortable talking to me and getting to know me then because there's no romantic pressure at all. It's hard to know what the heck he is really thinking, like sometimes he acts super weird in front of me, like he will actually laugh to himself while I'm talking to him and then I'm like "What?" and he's like "I don't know." I DON'T GET IT. And he seems like sometimes he tries to avoid me on purpose or like he can't wait to get away from me. But other people have noticed this too, where sometimes he seems very open and other times he seems shy and quiet, so he may not even realize he's being like this. I even had to tell him that when we were working on this video project together that I felt like he wasn't taking me seriously or that he didn't respect me and he's like "Oh no I'm not that kind of guy at all" and he said other people have told him that before, and so maybe he just has this weird way of being and he doesn't even realize he does it. So that makes it tricky to tell what he's thinking or how he feels about me. But as I told my coworkers, I honestly think I'm probably not even a thought to him. Which is another thing that upsets me because I like him a lot to the point that I think he's so perfect and everything and I've even written poems about him and stuff, and I'm sure to him I'm just some dumb girl he works with, and Abby was like "You don't know that, you don't know what he's thinking! Guys don't know what they want or what they're doing." She told me to remain positive and stop talking down about myself but honestly I mostly do that to avoid being disappointed. I don't want to get my hopes up that he could ever like me. Honestly it feels like Ugly Betty trying to date George Clooney, that's what I feel about it. So... yeah. I just don't know anymore. I think honestly a big part of it is that I am tired of waiting for Tim to make a move and so I'm looking at other guys a lot. "Why is everything so confusing, maybe I'm just out of my mind"
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Post by Becky on Jul 22, 2017 21:21:01 GMT
This is just from my experience so feel free to not consider my advice I've been with my boyfriend 6 years and he's my first boyfriend, and although we've broken up twice for a few months each time (which I put down to being young and stupid and trying to figure out what you want), until I did go on a few dates, I didn't feel like I'd missed out by not dating because I love him loads and he's my best friend and we're really happy. I didn't enjoy dating too much, sure it was fun but I also still had feelings for my boyfriend of course but tbh I don't think it's really for me. Now if I had no feelings for anybody, I'd probably have had a great time, but I don't think I could have a fling - I'd be looking for a relationship and I've just turned 21, and it seems not many people are at my age haha. There's also the chance if it's nothing serious that you catch feelings and get hurt, but I'm by no means saying don't do it. If you like Tim and think he may be 'the one', I personally wouldn't pass on it. Because you could either be really happy, or if it ends, then you can date and play the field. However, how many people know you fancy Z too? If Tim finds out from someone other than you, it could create a huge mess. But then would it ruin things if you tell Tim that you also fancy Z? Now the first time my boyfriend and I broke up was because he kissed another girl and he had a crush on her. He broke up with me and it took him a while to think, and he realised she was a crush, and he loved me. Ok we were 15 at the time haha, but he thought about what he wanted, and proved to me he wanted me and that nothing would happen between him and this other girl. It all depends on what you want, and it sounds like you have an idea but you aren't sure. If you think Tim likes you and Z doesn't, I personally would go for Tim and stick to it. You might stop liking Z if you get with Tim and focus on him. But who knows what feelings are going to do next haha. And you don't want it to get in the way of a potential relationship with Tim and for it to 1) upset and confuse you and 2) mess everything up with Tim. You've had both crushes for a while, but Tim longer (iirc), so I suppose suggesting you wait to see which one fades isn't useful right now. So if you're really unsure, then maybe don't act on anything. I know this is a whole load of contradicting advice haha, but personally I wouldn't go for Z, not right now. But ofc you don't have to even consider my advice, especially considering I'm not into the whole hook up, casually date and one night stand thing. I want to love and be loved haha. Z might seem appealing and fun, but AstroTurf never gets old (I hope there were at least interesting/helpful points in there to think about)
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Post by sliperslip on Jul 22, 2017 23:46:14 GMT
My perosonal experiences: whenever I had crush on someone and I was confused about him, it turned out that he is not the right guy for me. My BFF experiance: she was 100% sure that he is the wrong guy she didn't even have a crush on him, but still gave him a shot, now they are married and in love more than ever so all this crush/love thing I think sometimes you just don't need to think to much about it, and you just need to take a risk and give it a shot, yes being heartbroken is hard/sad,but you definitely learn something from it p.s. we need a thread about first kiss, firsts in general lol
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Post by BogoGog24 on Jul 22, 2017 23:56:04 GMT
I honestly feel the same way you do Becky, I'm not saying I want one night stands lol But some "fun" dating or whatever. But yeah I have actually considered all the things you mentioned and I think if I'm going to talk with Tim I should disclose to him I do like other guys too and tbh I don't think it would really bother him and I definitely agree he should hear it from me. And he deserves to know everything, even if it's not the best thing that I like other guys. He is 5 years older than me and has had quite a bit of dating experience, a lot more than I have. And he is pretty chill about stuff so I think he would understand me liking other guys and wanting to date. I've wondered myself if I dated Tim if I'd forget about Z. But obviously I won't know until it happens. I do agree Z and I don't seem meant to be for the time being, which is frustrating, but I hope maybe someday down the line we could get together. The thing with him is that he ticks a lot of boxes on my ideal man list. That's kind of why he appeals to me and why I want to date him so much. But perhaps it's best for me to be with Tim and get experience with someone I feel comfortable with and maybe I'm the meantime get to know Z better. Like I had to start from square one with Tim by talking to him for hours every day for 3 years to get to where we are now. And it's funny because in the beginning long before Z ever came around, I had a crush on Tim and one day he finally spoke to me and I thought to myself "Now if we could just have conversations like that every day, maybe we could be friends" and honestly I didn't think it would ever happen. But it did. And so maybe Z is just that all over again.
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Post by BogoGog24 on Jul 23, 2017 0:35:03 GMT
+ there is just one question that you should ask both of them Bogo to know who is the right guy, and the Q is: "Do you like Avril and how much? It's funny you say that because Tim and I were discussing Avril a bit yesterday and also over text today. He's a big fan of Linkin Park so obviously we were talking about Chester's death and I told him if he likes that kind of music he may like the UMS album and I showed him some songs and he's like "It doesn't do anything for me, I don't like her voice, she doesn't seem authentic." LOL Today we were texting and I told him I now have 5 Linkin Park songs on my phone and he has zero Avril songs and he's like no I got the AL album for free from the Family Guy game but he doesn't remember any of the songs and I said "You better refresh your memory boi or I'll see ya later boi" with the GIF of Avril waving bye from the Smile video. I don't know how Z feels about Avril, but I feel like she isn't his type of artist. Maybe he likes the hits at least? I don't know.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 23, 2017 1:44:22 GMT
I would secure a kiss on the lips before accepting Tim's proposal.
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Post by BogoGog24 on Sept 13, 2017 23:52:55 GMT
Another crush update: So I took my coworker's advice and finally talked to Tim a couple weeks ago, we went for a long walk outside of work and talked about how how we feel about each other. We confirmed what we both thought for all these years, that we both like each other. I told him all about Z and how I also like him, but that I'm sure nothing will happen since he barely notices me. Tim said this bothers him a little bit but he gets it. We decided to just take it slow and see where things go, we aren't officially committed to dating right now, and we thought maybe we could try it a couple times and see how we feel about it. Fast forward to last weekend when I went to Tim's apartment to hang out. We cuddled a lot and then he finally kissed me. We still don't really know what we're doing as far as the dating thing goes. I told him I just want to hang out and maybe cuddle and that kind of thing, and just not label it as anything. I still like Z a lot too and I told him it wouldn't be fair to him if I dated him knowing I like someone else. On the other hand, Tim says he's going to keep doing whatever he can to convince me to be with him. I'm really just kind of torn between them, I really love Tim a lot but I don't want to hurt him. If Z somehow asked me out I also wouldn't say no. But Tim knows all of this and even though he said it bothers him a little bit and makes him a little bit jealous, he also wouldn't get in my way if somehow Z and I wanted to date (yeah right like that will ever happen anyway! ) I've kind of been thinking maybe Tim is meant to be for now, because I feel way more comfortable in front of him and I don't feel as stupid or awkward for not knowing how to kiss and things like that, and he's a really good first boyfriend for me. We do love each other a lot and we get along super well. Maybe in time I will forget about Z. I think he needs time to mature and figure out what he wants in life, and maybe sometime later the time will be right for us. But yeah basically aside from the whole Z thing, Tim and I finally talked about our feelings and things seem to be heading in a positive direction for us.
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Post by Avengium on Sept 17, 2017 14:26:37 GMT
BogoGog24 Andrea, that is great! I feel happy for you and tim.
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Post by BogoGog24 on Sept 17, 2017 17:25:15 GMT
BogoGog24 Andrea, that is great! I feel happy for you and tim. Aw thanks
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