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Post by ben545 on Oct 9, 2015 13:47:30 GMT
I agree with you that because they are on the road a lot of the time it would put a strain on their relationship. I think it was Lemmy from Motorhead who said it was impossible for him to have a lasting relationship because he was on tour all the time. Avril was quite flippant about the whole relationship from the beginning saying stuff like,"I got a husband out of it" when discussing making her latest album and talking about how many times they had sex a day in a radio interview. I think it's important to believe in the sanctity of marriage to make it last. Everything about their attitude towards their relationship from the beginning was too blasé. Marriage is essentially a prelude to having children, it's a time to get serious; or indeed it is to point out that things are already serious when a couple have had children and decide to confirm their union as a couple. "Rock and role" marriages evidently don't work.
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Post by BogoGog24 on Oct 9, 2015 16:32:50 GMT
Honestly Avril might be better off marrying someone "normal." There are a lot of celebs in Hollywood married to non-famous people, or at least people not in the same line of work. For example, Carrie Underwood is married to a pro hockey player. I don't think marrying other musicians has seemed to work out too well for her. Either someone not in music, or a non famous person might be good for her. I'd really hate to see her become one of those people that's been divorced like 7 times- not really a good look.
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Post by Stephanie ❜. on Oct 11, 2015 1:22:33 GMT
Avril tends to rush with the getting married thing quite a little too much imo..
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Post by BogoGog24 on Oct 11, 2015 1:39:16 GMT
I think they rushed it with Chad but not Deryck- they had known each other for 2 years before they started dating, then dated for 2 years before marrying and stayed married for 3 years, so they knew each other for 7 years total. With Chad it was like they knew each other maybe 6 months then started dating, got engaged after 1 month of dating, got married after 1 year of knowing each other, and only stayed married for 2 years.
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Post by sk8erboi1000 on Nov 4, 2015 19:35:07 GMT
It doesn't really matter to me why her a Chad Separated and honestly I don't really care. I never really got that deep in researching her life it just seems creepy to me to do. I just respect her as a person and her life is her life and what she doesn't change how I'm a fan in anyway.
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ben545
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Post by ben545 on Nov 5, 2015 13:20:32 GMT
It doesn't really matter to me why her a Chad Separated and honestly I don't really care. I never really got that deep in researching her life it just seems creepy to me to do. I just respect her as a person and her life is her life and what she doesn't change how I'm a fan in anyway. I didn't mean to be creepy with my cross examination. Call me old fashioned but i just think marriage should be for life not a couple of years. What's the point?
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Post by Cookie Monster on Nov 5, 2015 13:56:50 GMT
It doesn't really matter to me why her a Chad Separated and honestly I don't really care. I never really got that deep in researching her life it just seems creepy to me to do. I just respect her as a person and her life is her life and what she doesn't change how I'm a fan in anyway. I didn't mean to be creepy with my cross examination. Call me old fashioned but i just think marriage should be for life not a couple of years. What's the point?
That's what everyone hopes for (and that's not an old fashioned thinking), but sadly for Avril it didn't work out.
How can a couple continue the marriage if they stop loving each other to a degree to which they cannot stand each other's presence? I don't know about Chavril, but in Deryck-Avril case, it looks like Avril had filed for divorced because they seemingly had a fight which continued for months, and Avril clearly couldn't stand being engaged to Deryck anymore.
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Post by sk8erboi1000 on Nov 5, 2015 18:30:20 GMT
Well Avril isn't exactly the easiest person to handle I mean I think she always has to be on the go and if you don't like it get the F#$k out so yeah thats really all I have to say about that.
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Post by sk8erboi1000 on Nov 5, 2015 18:32:20 GMT
And apparently Avril only marries fellow Canadians .
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Post by ben545 on Nov 6, 2015 2:08:40 GMT
Well Avril isn't exactly the easiest person to handle I mean I think she always has to be on the go and if you don't like it get the F#$k out so yeah thats really all I have to say about that. I'm an Avril Lavigne fan first and foremost. When push comes to shove I don't really care about the nature of her marriage, whatever she does is always 100% Avril Lavigne and I'm thankful for that.
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