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Post by ben545 on Aug 13, 2020 20:34:27 GMT
How rude indeed! Your back pain maybe related to your endometriosis I was reading on the internet because I didn't know what endometriosis is and I was googling it. Anyway, I'm not a doctor so I don't really know.
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Post by Panchali on Aug 13, 2020 20:48:48 GMT
Thank you!! And yes I have a good relationship with my brother. My parents is a long story too. But indeed the new colleague isn’t my boss so I try to ignore it a bit. I work for like 12 years at that company and she just 2 weeks and acts like she can say whatever she wants. Also to people from other departments. She’s demanding things she shouldn’t but my boss is a bit of a softy himself and doesn’t stand up for his team so we’ll see how this wil work out. My team is very small with 9 people and I work closely with 3 of them and with the new woman it makes 4 of them so that sucks a bit. I see her constantly. She told me last week in her first week that my backpain maybe is mental and I should visit a psychiatrist since maybe it’s not real pain... like: WTH?! You’re in your first week lady... calm down! I told a colleague about my back pain and what the doctor said and she just overheard us and said that... plain rude. She seems to have very poor social skills.
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Post by Jinkxx on Aug 14, 2020 8:58:38 GMT
ben545 it can be very different for every woman who struggles with it but it is a disease tho. As for me I have to take hormones for the rest of my life and am not allowed to have my period or it gets worse and then I can't even work cause of the pain. My backpain can be a bit because of it yes since it's all sticky old blood wich sticks around my organs so explain it in very simple English. I know I have this since 2011 but back then I was like: Okay I don't care that much because I was younger but now I know what it's like to have it and the pain it gives me while I do have my period and that's not something I wanna experience ever again tho. But I don't feel like a female sometimes since all those hormones are making me a bit numb/dull. Panchali I know right?! it has nothing to do with having autism.
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Post by Panchali on Aug 14, 2020 13:37:43 GMT
@jinxx People with severe autism can’t relate to people at all. She may have asperger’s but God knows. Every autistic/ asperger’s case is different so only a professional can diagnose.
Autistic people have severe issues, they cannot read in between the lines, their auditory and visual perception is completely different. Very few actually get married or hold proper jobs. But that doesn’t mean they are mean, they can be very emotional but they can’t express or understand how they feel. I know an autistic kid burnt himself but was laughing.
Nowadays, people self diagnose casually that they have Depression, OCD or autism, or give excuses for poor behaviour or being mean so can’t say. Usually autistic people have some kind of certificate or card for identification of being differently abled.
If she appears normal otherwise, autism is a strong word to use. If you know the symptoms, you can make out by just looking at them. They will be straightforward (in an innocent way), will not look you in the eye, will need something to fidget (they like spinning things), will be sensitive to noises etc.
By the way, about your illness, I read that it’s treatable and people get operated too. Have every thought of getting surgery?
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Post by ben545 on Aug 14, 2020 16:34:22 GMT
Jinkxx She comes across as being rude but if she does have a condition you have to treat her with respect to that condition. You can't treat her as a normal person without a disability or you will land yourself in trouble and that will make you look bad. I hope that makes sense. Maybe she is not suitable for employment but you have to make that known in a considerate way. You can't be expected to be her carer. We don't take on any volunteers at work that need one to one assistance.
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Post by Uncle Bob on Aug 14, 2020 18:59:19 GMT
I told a colleague about my back pain and what the doctor said and she just overheard us and said that... plain rude. I would have said, I only take personal advice, from people I know well and trust. And, I only take medical advice, from qualified professionals. But, thank you for your concern. Then, I would have flashed a big fake smile.
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Post by katy on Aug 14, 2020 19:49:42 GMT
On the absolute war path cos I went away for a few days and come back to sawfly eating my rose bush. holes in every bloody leaf. Two litres of rose bug spray on its way to me via amazon prime tomorrow
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Post by Deleted on Aug 16, 2020 0:03:30 GMT
A bit nervous. Gonna have to take the swab test on Wednesday
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Post by Jinkxx on Aug 18, 2020 19:53:50 GMT
@jinxx People with severe autism can’t relate to people at all. She may have asperger’s but God knows. Every autistic/ asperger’s case is different so only a professional can diagnose. Autistic people have severe issues, they cannot read in between the lines, their auditory and visual perception is completely different. Very few actually get married or hold proper jobs. But that doesn’t mean they are mean, they can be very emotional but they can’t express or understand how they feel. I know an autistic kid burnt himself but was laughing. Nowadays, people self diagnose casually that they have Depression, OCD or autism, or give excuses for poor behaviour or being mean so can’t say. Usually autistic people have some kind of certificate or card for identification of being differently abled. If she appears normal otherwise, autism is a strong word to use. If you know the symptoms, you can make out by just looking at them. They will be straightforward (in an innocent way), will not look you in the eye, will need something to fidget (they like spinning things), will be sensitive to noises etc. By the way, about your illness, I read that it’s treatable and people get operated too. Have every thought of getting surgery? Yeah there are a lot of different forms of having autism but she seems ‘normal’ besides dropping her opinion and rant about that. We shall see how this will work out! And yes some people may have surgery about my disease but mine can’t be fixed with surgery. I know I have this since 2011 so its a long path and every year I have a check up in the hospital. Thank you for thinking about it tho! I appreciate it! Uncle Bob good thing to say! I’m always kinda overwhelmed by such opinions since I’m nothing like that myself! Will keep it in mind! Thanks! ben545 true and I don’t know her that well so maybe (I hope) I think about her differently after a while but still.. she doesn’t make sense to me and my work is kinda heavy and she already said she can’t do certain things so that doesn’t work that well..
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Post by Jinkxx on Aug 18, 2020 19:54:16 GMT
A bit nervous. Gonna have to take the swab test on Wednesday Good luck!! I hope all will be well!!
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Post by Uncle Bob on Aug 18, 2020 20:45:31 GMT
A bit nervous. Gonna have to take the swab test on Wednesday Good luck!! I hope all will be well!! Ditto.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 18, 2020 20:58:30 GMT
A bit nervous. Gonna have to take the swab test on Wednesday Good luck!! I hope all will be well!! Thank you so much!
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Post by ★Caro★ on Aug 19, 2020 10:18:43 GMT
Actually pretty good. We were able to get some stuff done today already, yay. I did also have some time for my website, as well as some other Avril related „stuff“ lol...feeling good today 😊
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Post by Jinkxx on Aug 19, 2020 11:21:54 GMT
Good but tired. Still got positive vibes from monday when I visited RockBitch. But this morning I was late since I turned my alarm off instead of snooze 1 time. Then a car in front of me while we stood still at a traffic light drove backwards and hit me (he stood in the wrong lane, I had to go left, he had to go right but stood left. So that took me quite some time, thank god no car damage as I could see. Then a farm vehicle drove super slow so I was 5 minutes late at work and felt really rushed. 5 minutes isn't much but I drove too fast at some places so didn't felt good. But now I feel normal again
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Post by Deleted on Aug 20, 2020 19:28:24 GMT
Pretty good. I tested negative for COVID!
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