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Post by Panchali on Jul 21, 2023 18:09:34 GMT
Im glad the rains have stopped and the river near my house is receding. There was flood alert here 😅
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Post by shessolucky on Jul 21, 2023 19:00:40 GMT
Im glad the rains have stopped and the river near my house is receding. There was flood alert here 😅 I hope your house and everyone is fine!
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Post by Panchali on Jul 22, 2023 7:36:49 GMT
Im glad the rains have stopped and the river near my house is receding. There was flood alert here 😅 I hope your house and everyone is fine! yes
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Post by Panchali on Jul 22, 2023 7:37:17 GMT
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Post by Jinkxx on Jul 24, 2023 10:00:42 GMT
Aaaah my skin is so bad I wanna hide my left side of my face but I work in a laboratory so I wear a hair mask so all my hair is out my face so yeah everyone can see my bad skin I hate it, I'm 35 but still have some terrible break-outs every now and then. It's hormones, well suck them. Besides that I opened up to a 'friend' via Whatsapp about how I feel because I have a feeling she's throwing our friendship away and I was only good enough when she was feeling bad. She's better now and I never hear a thing anymore while we chatted daily via Whatsapp because she lives quite a bit away from me. She was also always not replying on certain topics I asked her about so it all feels very weird. I recorded a voice message for her where I just told her how I felt about all this and if she felt the same way or maybe doesn't want me anymore as a friend because I'd rather know it than not being told about it. She never addresses my fears but I always have to listen to her issues with her kids, so that sucks. I wonder what she's gonna say about it. I'd rather told her in person but I'm not gonna drive that long to her just for that; where her kids and boyfriend are always at home and she has driving anxiety so she's not coming over to my place and she doesn't like phonecalls. So a voice message it is then. Wow that sounds sad. Have you tried changing diet or yoga etc for your skin. Also maybe your friend is going through something or if she generally does this when she doesn’t need you.. sounds mean. I stop talking to people who do this to me .. Yeah I tried a few things in my diet such as avoiding dairy products a lot. It seems I can't digest that very good but there are some replacements for that I enjoy but I don't notice anything for my skin. I think it really is hormones and a lot of stress indeed. I drink a lot of water everyday and have a good skin care ritual every morning and evening so I don't really know what I can do else. Maybe yoga indeed. And yes my friend is feeling now a lot better than she was so that's great but maybe I don't seem to fit in her world now anymore. It all started when we went to the Avril concert in the Netherlands and everything had to be her way and she kind of ruined the experience for me. Glad I went to two more shows with 2 awesome other people wich was SO awesome!! I let it rest for now and see what she's says when she replies back. Aaaah my skin is so bad I wanna hide my left side of my face but I work in a laboratory so I wear a hair mask so all my hair is out my face so yeah everyone can see my bad skin I hate it, I'm 35 but still have some terrible break-outs every now and then. It's hormones, well suck them. Besides that I opened up to a 'friend' via Whatsapp about how I feel because I have a feeling she's throwing our friendship away and I was only good enough when she was feeling bad. She's better now and I never hear a thing anymore while we chatted daily via Whatsapp because she lives quite a bit away from me. She was also always not replying on certain topics I asked her about so it all feels very weird. I recorded a voice message for her where I just told her how I felt about all this and if she felt the same way or maybe doesn't want me anymore as a friend because I'd rather know it than not being told about it. She never addresses my fears but I always have to listen to her issues with her kids, so that sucks. I wonder what she's gonna say about it. I'd rather told her in person but I'm not gonna drive that long to her just for that; where her kids and boyfriend are always at home and she has driving anxiety so she's not coming over to my place and she doesn't like phonecalls. So a voice message it is then. I know how you feel about your skin breaking out. A good skin care routine can only come so far, hormones and stress can still affect everything despite the effort. I hope it gets easier for you It looks like this friendship doesn’t seem to be fulfilling to your needs, you seem to do more for her than you, and she’s not really doing anything with your concerns, and just being lowing effort. I’m glad you called her out on it, and that you’re not going overboard with yourself and letting her take advantage of your kindness. Update me on how it goes Thank you, I hope so too!! A good skin care routine is only outside wich is good but the it also has to come from the inside. And yeah I was quite anxious to call her out on that but in the past I never stood up for myself and wouldn't said anything and instead I would feel bad and it would eat me from the inside and if she really is a friend I'm allowed to say such things. And I was still kind but told everything that was on my mind. The update is: She listened to my message and said she would reply to it s**n but here we are and I haven't heard anything yet so I'm gonna let it rest for now.
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Post by Panchali on Jul 24, 2023 11:16:05 GMT
Jinkxx have u tried food intolerance and allergy test?
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Post by Jinkxx on Jul 24, 2023 11:45:45 GMT
Jinkxx have u tried food intolerance and allergy test? Yes, dairy products are not so good and slightly gluten. Gluten is hard to eliminate entirely from my diet tho. I have tried it for like 3 months but didn't notice any difference. I try to avoid them as much as possible.
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Post by madelyn on Jul 24, 2023 16:05:31 GMT
Wow that sounds sad. Have you tried changing diet or yoga etc for your skin. Also maybe your friend is going through something or if she generally does this when she doesn’t need you.. sounds mean. I stop talking to people who do this to me .. Yeah I tried a few things in my diet such as avoiding dairy products a lot. It seems I can't digest that very good but there are some replacements for that I enjoy but I don't notice anything for my skin. I think it really is hormones and a lot of stress indeed. I drink a lot of water everyday and have a good skin care ritual every morning and evening so I don't really know what I can do else. Maybe yoga indeed. And yes my friend is feeling now a lot better than she was so that's great but maybe I don't seem to fit in her world now anymore. It all started when we went to the Avril concert in the Netherlands and everything had to be her way and she kind of ruined the experience for me. Glad I went to two more shows with 2 awesome other people wich was SO awesome!! I let it rest for now and see what she's says when she replies back. I know how you feel about your skin breaking out. A good skin care routine can only come so far, hormones and stress can still affect everything despite the effort. I hope it gets easier for you It looks like this friendship doesn’t seem to be fulfilling to your needs, you seem to do more for her than you, and she’s not really doing anything with your concerns, and just being lowing effort. I’m glad you called her out on it, and that you’re not going overboard with yourself and letting her take advantage of your kindness. Update me on how it goes Thank you, I hope so too!! A good skin care routine is only outside wich is good but the it also has to come from the inside. And yeah I was quite anxious to call her out on that but in the past I never stood up for myself and wouldn't said anything and instead I would feel bad and it would eat me from the inside and if she really is a friend I'm allowed to say such things. And I was still kind but told everything that was on my mind. The update is: She listened to my message and said she would reply to it s**n but here we are and I haven't heard anything yet so I'm gonna let it rest for now. I’m so glad you stood up for yourself and called her out! That’s a really huge thing for you to do since you never done it before, and doing what you believe in! Sounds like she’s kinda limiting you back with the way she treats you, please do whatever is the best and healthy for you
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Post by biteme on Jul 25, 2023 4:00:53 GMT
I’m alright
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Post by Panchali on Jul 26, 2023 6:32:05 GMT
Jinkxx have u tried food intolerance and allergy test? Yes, dairy products are not so good and slightly gluten. Gluten is hard to eliminate entirely from my diet tho. I have tried it for like 3 months but didn't notice any difference. I try to avoid them as much as possible. you know I’m lactose intolerant too.. when I was a kid I couldn’t digest milk but I kept on having it. It still comes up in allergy test but nothing happens now. I think you should try yoga or homeopathy. They can get rid of issues from the root.
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Post by Jinkxx on Jul 27, 2023 10:29:52 GMT
I will check those things out, thank you Panchali !! And thank you for the kind words madelyn !! Means a lot! I haven't heard something from my friend (yet). She says she needs to think how to reply to me... I just let it rest for now. I will see if she comes up with something or not.
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Post by madelyn on Jul 27, 2023 16:35:31 GMT
I will check those things out, thank you Panchali !! And thank you for the kind words madelyn !! Means a lot! I haven't heard something from my friend (yet). She says she needs to think how to reply to me... I just let it rest for now. I will see if she comes up with something or not. np jinkxx, waiting game time
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Post by tirasayshello on Jul 29, 2023 21:33:44 GMT
Feel like shit. My sister in-law has a highly advanced Uterine cancer. But she refused to go to the doctors for the longest time. There's something about my family, biological and in-laws, and cancer that just really ruins my day.
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Post by Jinkxx on Jul 30, 2023 8:05:00 GMT
Feel like shit. My sister in-law has a highly advanced Uterine cancer. But she refused to go to the doctors for the longest time. There's something about my family, biological and in-laws, and cancer that just really ruins my day. That's terrible... I wish you and your family all the best and hopefully your sister-in-law will recover.
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Post by madelyn on Jul 30, 2023 19:49:05 GMT
Feel like shit. My sister in-law has a highly advanced Uterine cancer. But she refused to go to the doctors for the longest time. There's something about my family, biological and in-laws, and cancer that just really ruins my day. Sorry to hear that, sometimes people don’t know what’s wrong until it’s too late. I suffer from a chronic illness as well, I hope everything goes well for you.
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