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Post by Jinkxx on Jan 6, 2024 19:55:09 GMT
Stressed out, tired and nervous/anxious but also happy because we had a really nice christmas with our families. I love christmas. And Im so sad because it’s getting clearer that one of my best friends is letting me down since I got a child. I mean, I get that there was a time where she wanted a baby but couldnt get pregnant because of health issues and I understand how insanely bad this is, but she says its been ten years now and shes fine and happy she didnt get kids because she is free now and can do whatever she wants. So technicnally this shouldnt be the problem, she was happy for me and Im not going around talking only about this subject but its like she doesnt understand anything about my world now and she doesnt even try. She knows Im not feeling ok, that Im sick a lot Blabla and she doesnt even ask. Shes not listening to me, I can't share my thoughts or worries with her anymore about anything, even things not related to children. We live in different cities so we have an hour driving by car between us and ive been visiting her and vice versa after giving birth but it only became clearer that she doesnt understand. It hurts so much that she didnt even write a short message for christmas. It almost feels like shes punishing me for it. I’m so sorry to hear this. It’s so hard when you lose a friend but if it’s like this you must not beat yourself up about it because you’re more worth than that! good to hear your Christmas was very nice! I have a very bad eye infection, my right eye is very painful, red, like some veins are exploded in my eye. But it’s not an infection with swelling or dirty shit coming out of your eye, my eye is clean but very painful when I have a little pressure on my eyelids or something.. I can’t handle bright light and have to take painkillers 3 times a day.. it’s like there’s too much pressure in my eye? If it’s not a little better tomorrow I call the doctor on Monday because I have this now for like 5-6 days.
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Post by delmatico on Jan 10, 2024 21:34:58 GMT
3/5
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Post by delmatico on Jan 11, 2024 21:40:59 GMT
I will work on saturday 4/5
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Jinkxx
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Post by Jinkxx on Jan 14, 2024 15:58:42 GMT
Okay little update from me. My bad eye infection is even worse. I went 2 times to the first aid post at the hospital and last Thursday I knew what I had and it’s an ‘iris inflammation’ which is an auto immunity disease. They didn’t knew how I got this but it comes from the inside and I have a feeling it’s like my body is always in survival mode and I don’t know how to relax. So maybe I’m drained again but it’s very scary cause I have blurry sight in my bad eye. I have to take 3 different medications a day for it, one droplet 8 times a day, another droplet 4 times a day and a cream for the night. My pupil is very big cause if all the droplets and I have a lot of check ups in the hospital but for now I can’t go to work because I can’t drive with this blurry sight. i can’t watch tv, i wear sunglasses mostly because my eye can’t handle the bright lights. I’ve turned down the resolution on my phone and iPad so that works. I’m quite scared because I don’t know how long this will take for it’s back to normal and I’m very scared for it to come back because I don’t know when I feel exhausted or drained.. I only feel that when it’s too late and I don’t want this to come back but there’s a possibility it will..
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Post by falling on Jan 15, 2024 14:23:15 GMT
Okay little update from me. My bay eye infection is even worse. I went 2 times to the first aid post at the hospital and last Thursday I knew what I had and it’s an ‘iris inflammation’ which is an auto immunity disease. They didn’t knew how I got this but it comes from the inside and I have a feeling it’s like my body is always in survival mode and I don’t know how to relax. So maybe I’m drained again but it’s very scary cause I have blurry sight in my bad eye. I have to take 3 different medications a day for it, one droplet 8 times a day, another droplet 4 times a day and a cream for the night. My pupil is very big cause if all the droplets and I have a lot of check ups in the hospital but for now I can’t go to work because I can’t drive with this blurry sight. i can’t watch tv, i wear sunglasses mostly because my eye can’t handle the bright lights. I’ve turned down the resolution on my phone and iPad so that works. I’m quite scared because I don’t know how long this will take for it’s back to normal and I’m very scared for it to come back because I don’t know when I feel exhausted or drained.. I only feel that when it’s too late and I don’t want this to come back but there’s a possibility it will.. Oh this is so bad. I so hope that you will recover and be able to lead a full life again. I hope that your doctors will be able to provide you with everything you need.
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Jinkxx
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Post by Jinkxx on Jan 15, 2024 18:11:49 GMT
Okay little update from me. My bay eye infection is even worse. I went 2 times to the first aid post at the hospital and last Thursday I knew what I had and it’s an ‘iris inflammation’ which is an auto immunity disease. They didn’t knew how I got this but it comes from the inside and I have a feeling it’s like my body is always in survival mode and I don’t know how to relax. So maybe I’m drained again but it’s very scary cause I have blurry sight in my bad eye. I have to take 3 different medications a day for it, one droplet 8 times a day, another droplet 4 times a day and a cream for the night. My pupil is very big cause if all the droplets and I have a lot of check ups in the hospital but for now I can’t go to work because I can’t drive with this blurry sight. i can’t watch tv, i wear sunglasses mostly because my eye can’t handle the bright lights. I’ve turned down the resolution on my phone and iPad so that works. I’m quite scared because I don’t know how long this will take for it’s back to normal and I’m very scared for it to come back because I don’t know when I feel exhausted or drained.. I only feel that when it’s too late and I don’t want this to come back but there’s a possibility it will.. Oh this is so bad. I so hope that you will recover and be able to lead a full life again. I hope that your doctors will be able to provide you with everything you need. Thank you so much! Means a lot
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Post by tirasayshello on Jan 19, 2024 3:48:29 GMT
Guys I need help my son got a damn boyfriend and I'm losing my shit. What do I do?!
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Post by tirasayshello on Jan 19, 2024 3:52:05 GMT
Okay little update from me. My bad eye infection is even worse. I went 2 times to the first aid post at the hospital and last Thursday I knew what I had and it’s an ‘iris inflammation’ which is an auto immunity disease. They didn’t knew how I got this but it comes from the inside and I have a feeling it’s like my body is always in survival mode and I don’t know how to relax. So maybe I’m drained again but it’s very scary cause I have blurry sight in my bad eye. I have to take 3 different medications a day for it, one droplet 8 times a day, another droplet 4 times a day and a cream for the night. My pupil is very big cause if all the droplets and I have a lot of check ups in the hospital but for now I can’t go to work because I can’t drive with this blurry sight. i can’t watch tv, i wear sunglasses mostly because my eye can’t handle the bright lights. I’ve turned down the resolution on my phone and iPad so that works. I’m quite scared because I don’t know how long this will take for it’s back to normal and I’m very scared for it to come back because I don’t know when I feel exhausted or drained.. I only feel that when it’s too late and I don’t want this to come back but there’s a possibility it will.. I'm so sorry... I really do hope that this gets better for you. The medications may not be fun, but hopefully they can start to help your eye. I don't know much about auto immune diseases beside the stuff from my friend with it, but don't lose hope, your an amazing, strong person, and you can do this!
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Post by falling on Jan 19, 2024 8:27:51 GMT
Guys I need help my son got a damn boyfriend and I'm losing my shit. What do I do?! Hi. And you are against this, right? I don't know, maybe it just might be friendship, although you know better as mother. How old is he? It's just that teenagers can often do strange things, but then they will give it up.
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Post by tirasayshello on Jan 19, 2024 14:52:42 GMT
Guys I need help my son got a damn boyfriend and I'm losing my shit. What do I do?! Hi. And you are against this, right? I don't know, maybe it just might be friendship, although you know better as mother. How old is he? It's just that teenagers can often do strange things, but then they will give it up. I personally am not against it, I'm just losing my mind over him being in a relationship in general. And he did not come out to me before, and I have met the other boy, it's really just shocking to me. Also he's 16
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Post by Jinkxx on Jan 19, 2024 16:11:23 GMT
Hi. And you are against this, right? I don't know, maybe it just might be friendship, although you know better as mother. How old is he? It's just that teenagers can often do strange things, but then they will give it up. I personally am not against it, I'm just losing my mind over him being in a relationship in general. And he did not come out to me before, and I have met the other boy, it's really just shocking to me. Also he's 16 Maybe if you meet him he’s a nice boy, it may freak you out and I don’t have experience since I don’t have kids myself but if he’s happy it’s good right? Maybe you can ask him about how he feels and that you’re supporting him?
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Post by tirasayshello on Jan 19, 2024 19:01:00 GMT
I personally am not against it, I'm just losing my mind over him being in a relationship in general. And he did not come out to me before, and I have met the other boy, it's really just shocking to me. Also he's 16 Maybe if you meet him he’s a nice boy, it may freak you out and I don’t have experience since I don’t have kids myself but if he’s happy it’s good right? Maybe you can ask him about how he feels and that you’re supporting him? Oh for sure, the boy's super sweet. And so far he seems happy, I'm just naturally more worried about something happening between them and all that, but I think that's normal for any mother. I am trying to support him the best I can, and so far, it's going good.
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Post by Jinkxx on Jan 20, 2024 17:39:08 GMT
Maybe if you meet him he’s a nice boy, it may freak you out and I don’t have experience since I don’t have kids myself but if he’s happy it’s good right? Maybe you can ask him about how he feels and that you’re supporting him? Oh for sure, the boy's super sweet. And so far he seems happy, I'm just naturally more worried about something happening between them and all that, but I think that's normal for any mother. I am trying to support him the best I can, and so far, it's going good. That’s good to hear!! And yeah I can understand that you’re worried as a mother! But good that it’s going good so far!!
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Post by tirasayshello on Jan 20, 2024 22:33:44 GMT
Great news (I think?). My husband, son, son's boyfriend and I all sat down to talk about their relationship and boundaries and stuff. The boundaries we set were all kind of common sense and thing in that sort, and apparently they had been together for the past month. Naturally we were a little taken aback, and it seems that my son was kind of scared to come out to us, (he had been mocked in school by some shitty kids about being gay, and we are an American right-of-center family) so he was nervous of how we would take it. I felt terrible for making it seem like we wouldn't accept him, so we made it clear that we would support him through thick and thin, and the air definitely lifted. It's looking like their relationship is going strong!
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Post by falling on Jan 21, 2024 12:32:15 GMT
Great news (I think?). My husband, son, son's boyfriend and I all sat down to talk about their relationship and boundaries and stuff. The boundaries we set were all kind of common sense and thing in that sort, and apparently they had been together for the past month. Naturally we were a little taken aback, and it seems that my son was kind of scared to come out to us, (he had been mocked in school by some shitty kids about being gay, and we are an American right-of-center family) so he was nervous of how we would take it. I felt terrible for making it seem like we wouldn't accept him, so we made it clear that we would support him through thick and thin, and the air definitely lifted. It's looking like their relationship is going strong! that's good
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