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Post by Uncle Bob on Sept 4, 2015 22:47:41 GMT
The good news is... I only have to burn one Nickelback teeshirt.
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Post by BogoGog24 on Sept 4, 2015 23:18:17 GMT
LOL This is the best the tabloids could come up with? However, I do imagine that "intimate" times stopped when Avril became ill and new marriages should be full of that. I'm sure Avril's illness put a big strain on their relationship, with Chad not bring there all the time and worrying about her. I can't imagine her illness didn't at least play some part in all this.
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Post by katy on Sept 5, 2015 7:17:54 GMT
Let's be honest the marriage (and Chads whole life....) did seem to revolve around sex - assuming that stopped when Avril got ill it's no surprise they've split
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Post by eismann on Sept 5, 2015 9:20:46 GMT
Everyone says that Chad was really surportive during her illness but I wonder if that is really true. In her interviewed she just said something like 'he was there for me as much as he could' but most of the time he was on tour, right? And then her instagram-posts were she said 'family and friends are the most important' 'thank you caren for the first flowers for me this year' etc. It always made me feel like maybe his support wasnt enough for Avril
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Post by Deleted on Sept 5, 2015 10:15:06 GMT
Everyone says that Chad was really surportive during her illness but I wonder if that is really true. In her interviewed she just said something like 'he was there for me as much as he could' but most of the time he was on tour, right? And then her instagram-posts were she said 'family and friends are the most important' 'thank you caren for the first flowers for me this year' etc. It always made me feel like maybe his support wasnt enough for Avril Maybe you're right. I always gave him the benefit of the doubt during that time, because it can't be easy to watch your wife suffer in the way she must have done, while being powerless to do anything about it. But in retrospect, perhaps it was yet another red flag. :/
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Post by StrongSweet on Sept 5, 2015 11:30:41 GMT
TBH, Chad proposed to Avril just for her beauty If he is her true husband, he must stay by her side when she was going thru difficult time. What even doesn't make any sense at all is that Avril didn't even thank Chad anything in GMA but the fans. That was weird.
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Post by Dillon on Sept 5, 2015 13:09:04 GMT
But within the statement "family and friends" Chad would in fact have been included in the family part. She wouldn't have said "husbands, family, and friends…". Avril wouldn't have necessarily directly referenced Chad even if he was the one giving most of the support. I don't her post is foreshadowing their separation.
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Post by katrina on Sept 5, 2015 13:14:24 GMT
I just like how I got so much crap for saying that Chad wasn't really there for her when she was ill. Now its alright to say it. The sign were pretty clear to see back than but now that they aren't together is alright to talk about Chad in bad light. Typical.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 5, 2015 13:18:00 GMT
That article about Avril not finding Chad attractive, that Avril did not thank Chad - that's the article I posted but later erased 'cause I thought it was crappy (the site was too attention seeking), and I still don't agree with it.
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Post by jackster31 on Sept 5, 2015 13:45:17 GMT
I don't buy that Chad wasn't supportive at all. He was, more than supportive. He postponed the release of his record twice, flew back home after tourdates and even canceled and postponed due to "family emergency". When he wasn't touring he took care of his wife.
Now possibly that wasn't enough for Avril, but I doubt it was the reason for the break up. Now maybe the love just fizzled out..that happens.
We're all speculating now, because tbh this separation announcement comes out of left field imo. No red flags or signs as far as I'm concerned were given....so let's wait and see what happens next.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 5, 2015 13:45:38 GMT
I just like how I got so much crap for saying that Chad wasn't really there for her when she was ill. Now its alright to say it. The sign were pretty clear to see back than but now that they aren't together is alright to talk about Chad in bad light. Typical. Don't worry, those of us who suspected their marriage wouldn't last based on more general observations got the same kind of crap. Now it all makes sense to everyone. This isn't to say I'm happy about being right or that I was hoping they'd split, but...
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Post by BogoGog24 on Sept 5, 2015 14:09:52 GMT
I think Chad was as supportive as he could possibly be. The guy has a massive career of his own and it's not just him, but an entire band that depends on this job. If Chad were a solo artist he probably would have dropped everything to be with Avril but when there's other people involved it's not that easy. He ended up having to cancel the tour anyway because of vocal problems, but when he was still healthy I don't think he would have wanted to cancel the whole tour and disappoint fans. It's not like he could do much for her anyway, especially if her mom was there to take care of her. Maybe Avril also did not want him to cancel because she'd feel guilty. I think Chad was there for her as much as what his career allowed him.
It's ok to talk about this kind of stuff now because it's over between them. I don't think it is really nice or supportive to say a marriage won't last while said couple are still together. Of course some fans that were supportive of them were going to "give you crap" for saying stuff like that because it's downright rude. I think a lot of us raised an eyebrow at this relationship, myself included. And I was always quite skeptical of how long it would last but I saw how happy they seemed together and was just like "Alright, wish ya the best then." You could be disapproving of somebody's relationship but still be supportive.
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Post by Gabo on Sept 5, 2015 21:31:26 GMT
I think Avril is an impulsive person, like the ones who are like: - "Hey, nice to meet you... I LOVE YOU already" Maybe she gets too blind with the love-feelings that everyone get when they're in love or dating. Points to prove this? The Brody tattoo she got and then with Chad she was engaged after "1 month" of dating. For me getting a tattoo because of somebody (a girlfriend) it's very serious like getting married, I mean that's something you will have to carry on, on your skin for your life (at least you want to removed it which is not cheap and also painful). And well, getting engaged after a month of dating.... whoa! you have to be really in love for this. Not everytime you could make it through successfully
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Post by katy on Sept 6, 2015 16:28:21 GMT
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Post by Becky on Sept 6, 2015 23:30:29 GMT
^ I can't tell who's worse - the people who write at the Daily Mail or most of the people who comment...
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