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Post by Deleted on Feb 25, 2019 13:12:23 GMT
Only thing I can suggest from personal experience is to do what is best for you - if you need the time off for medical reasons, and especially if your work provides that for you (I don't know, here in the US if you are a full-time employee you get sick days and medical leave for more serious conditions). Screw what other people think, if they want to come to work when they have a serious illness and feel uncomfortable all day long or get others sick that's their problem. You don't have to justify anything to anyone. Even better if you can get a note from a doctor that says you should take time off. If they want to argue about that, it shows they're really just kind of stupid and trying to make you feel bad for something that is out of your control. A hernia is extremely serious and probably could get worse the longer it goes untreated. Your health comes first and no one should ever make you feel bad for that. Screw what they think! Thank you! I'm gonna think about this all and try to figure out how to deal with it. It's a mess since I also got the news my stepdad has colon cancer and it has also spread to his liver. My mom can't handle it so I also have to be there for them. I just told my teamleader it will be a difficult time so he knows about it! I'm sorry to hear about your stepdad. I wish the best for his recovery, and that everything will be okay for you and your family! Also about your work, don't push yourself too hard and take time off if necessary. Health comes first! If your co-workers decide to come to work despite of them being sick, that's their choice. But if your team leader has problems with you not working because of health reasons, screw him. He has no right to complain and needs to accept the fact that you cannot work with a condition like that. Hernia is a serious issue, and needs to be looked after as soon as possible. Listen to yourself and don't let anyone get in your way. Do what you have to do for your own will.
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Post by Jinkxx on Feb 25, 2019 13:44:07 GMT
Thank you! I'm gonna think about this all and try to figure out how to deal with it. It's a mess since I also got the news my stepdad has colon cancer and it has also spread to his liver. My mom can't handle it so I also have to be there for them. I just told my teamleader it will be a difficult time so he knows about it! I'm sorry to hear about your stepdad. I wish the best for his recovery, and that everything will be okay for you and your family! Also about your work, don't push yourself too hard and take time off if necessary. Health comes first! If your co-workers decide to come to work despite of them being sick, that's their choice. But if your team leader has problems with you not working because of health reasons, screw him. He has no right to complain and needs to accept the fact that you cannot work with a condition like that. Hernia is a serious issue, and needs to be looked after as soon as possible. Listen to yourself and don't let anyone get in your way. Do what you have to do for your own will. Thanks for the kind words!! I really appreciate it I will!
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Post by Deleted on Feb 25, 2019 15:12:00 GMT
I'm sorry to hear about your stepdad. I wish the best for his recovery, and that everything will be okay for you and your family! Also about your work, don't push yourself too hard and take time off if necessary. Health comes first! If your co-workers decide to come to work despite of them being sick, that's their choice. But if your team leader has problems with you not working because of health reasons, screw him. He has no right to complain and needs to accept the fact that you cannot work with a condition like that. Hernia is a serious issue, and needs to be looked after as soon as possible. Listen to yourself and don't let anyone get in your way. Do what you have to do for your own will. Thanks for the kind words!! I really appreciate it I will! No worries!! Take care out there, best.
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Post by Uncle Bob on Mar 1, 2019 23:42:37 GMT
I'm feeling awesome since my echo cardiogram showed I don't need open heart surgery.
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Post by sam on Mar 3, 2019 19:09:00 GMT
Happy but nervous - I was surprised with a lovely early birthday present today and am now the owner of a 8 week old kitten I lost one of my cats last October (she just never came back home which was absolutely devestating to me) so I have decided to solely have her as an indoor cat. Her name is Luna and she is black and white I just hope in time she gets along well with our 2 adult cats and our puppy.
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Post by Jinkxx on Mar 4, 2019 9:45:18 GMT
So I don't want to post only negative stuff and no one has to reply either but I just need to get it off my chest and since this is the place here we go. There is no recovery possible for my stepdad, he came out of the hospital last saturday (he was taken by ambulance to the hospital last tuesday). And it's so agressive (the cancer) that they thought he would only have 2-8 weeks left, but since he is home with my mom the situation is getting worse.. They decided to put him on morphine this wednesday so he can sleep in... that being said, he isn't around anymore by the end of the week and my mom can't handle this. Anyway: Uncle Bob : That's awesome news!! Congratulations! sam : Oooh that's so sweet! I hope she gives you lots of love and comfort! I love cats too, have 2 Birmans myself!
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Post by Deleted on Mar 4, 2019 12:18:34 GMT
So I don't want to post only negative stuff and no one has to reply either but I just need to get it off my chest and since this is the place here we go. There is no recovery possible for my stepdad, he came out of the hospital last saturday (he was taken by ambulance to the hospital last tuesday). And it's so agressive (the cancer) that they thought he would only have 2-8 weeks left, but since he is home with my mom the situation is getting worse.. They decided to put him on morphine this wednesday so he can sleep in... that being said, he isn't around anymore by the end of the week and my mom can't handle this. Anyway: Uncle Bob : That's awesome news!! Congratulations! sam : Oooh that's so sweet! I hope she gives you lots of love and comfort! I love cats too, have 2 Birmans myself! I apologize for your loss. My condolences goes to you and your family!
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Post by Uncle Bob on Mar 4, 2019 13:06:38 GMT
They decided to put him on morphine this wednesday so he can sleep in... that being said, he isn't around anymore by the end of the week and my mom can't handle this. Wow. It doesn't get much worse than that. You are in for a rough time. Having buried my fair share of friends and relatives, all I can tell you is, the only thing that is going to make you feel better is, time. Most of us find a way to be happy again. I wish you the best.
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Post by Jinkxx on Mar 4, 2019 14:00:15 GMT
So I don't want to post only negative stuff and no one has to reply either but I just need to get it off my chest and since this is the place here we go. There is no recovery possible for my stepdad, he came out of the hospital last saturday (he was taken by ambulance to the hospital last tuesday). And it's so agressive (the cancer) that they thought he would only have 2-8 weeks left, but since he is home with my mom the situation is getting worse.. They decided to put him on morphine this wednesday so he can sleep in... that being said, he isn't around anymore by the end of the week and my mom can't handle this. Anyway: Uncle Bob : That's awesome news!! Congratulations! sam : Oooh that's so sweet! I hope she gives you lots of love and comfort! I love cats too, have 2 Birmans myself! I apologize for your loss. My condolences goes to you and your family! Thank you! I appreciate this!
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Post by Jinkxx on Mar 4, 2019 14:01:16 GMT
They decided to put him on morphine this wednesday so he can sleep in... that being said, he isn't around anymore by the end of the week and my mom can't handle this. Wow. It doesn't get much worse than that. You are in for a rough time. Having buried my fair share of friends and relatives, all I can tell you is, the only thing that is going to make you feel better is, time. Most of us find a way to be happy again. I wish you the best. Yes time will be the only thing that will make me and my family feel better. Thank you for your kind words! I appreciate it!
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Post by ben545 on Mar 12, 2019 1:08:45 GMT
My day off work. Woke up at 3 or 4 am and had a couple of pipes. Went into town and had a pint of Budweiser in the genting casino. Then had two bottles of Bud for £6. Then went to The Square Peg, a weatherspoons pub in town and had a cooked breakfast and another bottle of Bud. Then I went and sat outside cafe rouge and had a pint of Stella Artois. Then went to The Peaky Blinders pub and had a bottle of Bud. I then caught the bus to go home then changed my mind and got off at The Bullring Tavern pub and had a bottle of Coors Light. I then went back to the Genting casino and had a pipe in the smoking area outside. I then went to The Sunflower Lounge when they opened at 12am and had a bottle of Bud and a pipe. Then had another 2 bottles of Bud. I then bought some vegan rolls and went back to The Bullring Tavern and had a bottle of Peroni and a pipe outside. I then had some vegan dish in a fast food restaurant and came home at about 3pm. I just passed out all afternoon and woke up with a cold at about 9pm and started writing this at about 12pm after a few pipes. Happy days...
That's 11 drinks. That's quite ridiculous. Have caught a cold so not so clever.
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Post by ben545 on Mar 12, 2019 17:14:58 GMT
God, I feel fucking terrible. Have come down with a really bad cold from drinking too much yesterday. Been drinking Lemsip all day to numb the pain of headaches and blocked sinuses. I hope I'm well enough to go back to work on Thursday. Ouch!!
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Post by birdie2020 on Mar 12, 2019 18:35:56 GMT
Always have to pay for it when drinking like that. Rest up.
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Post by ben545 on Mar 14, 2019 8:10:29 GMT
Fuck it. I'm having the day off work, I feel like shit.
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Post by TheRaven on Mar 14, 2019 8:23:17 GMT
a bit tired and a bit hungry
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