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Post by Panchali on Aug 9, 2020 20:14:05 GMT
slapstickI’m really sorry to hear that you had to go through so much. I hope things are better and continue to get better for you. Not being able to socialise or meet loved ones especially during a crisis situation can be really hard. I think it’s a good time for us to realise the privileges we have that we normally take for granted and be more compassionate to others who have to live like this everyday, due to maybe war:diseases/ poverty. Focus on more important things.
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Post by slapstick on Aug 9, 2020 21:15:38 GMT
slapstick I’m really sorry to hear that you had to go through so much. I hope things are better and continue to get better for you. Not being able to socialise or meet loved ones especially during a crisis situation can be really hard. I think it’s a good time for us to realise the privileges we have that we normally take for granted and be more compassionate to others who have to live like this everyday, due to maybe war:diseases/ poverty. Focus on more important things. Thanks, and yeah, I suppose I'm a bit more 'stable' now, a few things, like finances, aren't as bad looking any more, and I've started exploring ways to tackle stress with new tricks, because old ones were.. bad and harmful.
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Post by ben545 on Aug 10, 2020 9:50:36 GMT
Feeling restless.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 10, 2020 12:14:01 GMT
I'm thinking of just going back home hoping that it would at least help me with my mental health. Even though I'd probably argue a lot with my family, at least I'll have someone to talk to. I'm stressing out already about all the requirements that I need to fly out of the country, I haven't really done any research though, I just heard from people who went back home. I hope I don't regret this.
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Post by Panchali on Aug 10, 2020 18:02:31 GMT
I'm thinking of just going back home hoping that it would at least help me with my mental health. Even though I'd probably argue a lot with my family, at least I'll have someone to talk to. I'm stressing out already about all the requirements that I need to fly out of the country, I haven't really done any research though, I just heard from people who went back home. I hope I don't regret this. ^What about your studies? Think things thoroughly & then make a decision. Will that really help? If it is beginning of a clinical depression, you may have to seek help of a professional. Don’t you have someone you can live with in UK? Someone from your home country? If you have people who have underlying medical conditions or are old at home, self isolate for 2 weeks atleast if you go back. Be cautious while travelling.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 10, 2020 19:41:24 GMT
I'm thinking of just going back home hoping that it would at least help me with my mental health. Even though I'd probably argue a lot with my family, at least I'll have someone to talk to. I'm stressing out already about all the requirements that I need to fly out of the country, I haven't really done any research though, I just heard from people who went back home. I hope I don't regret this. ^What about your studies? Think things thoroughly & then make a decision. Will that really help? If it is beginning of a clinical depression, you may have to seek help of a professional. Don’t you have someone you can live with in UK? Someone from your home country? If you have people who have underlying medical conditions or are old at home, self isolate for 2 weeks atleast if you go back. Be cautious while travelling. The next semester will be 100% online so I can do it from home. I do have some friends from my home country that I like that are in the UK, but they're also leaving in a few weeks or so.. I understand about the self-isolation thing and I will be very cautious when I travel, thank you! I will really think things thoroughly.
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Post by ben545 on Aug 11, 2020 2:15:31 GMT
It's difficult to put into words how bad I feel right now. Maybe I am a monster.
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Post by Jinkxx on Aug 11, 2020 6:59:56 GMT
It's difficult to put into words how bad I feel right now. Maybe I am a monster. Oh that's bad.. I hope you're feeling a bit more okay now.. I feel sad and tired. The heat at night is something I can't deal with very good. I have a mobile air conditioning but that doesn't work like I wanted it to be. Also that thing makes a lot of noise. And we have new collegue wich immediatley speaks her mind in a way that isn't nice, she's my age but I feel like I dislike her. Childish and not acting her age, it quite annoys me tho.
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Post by Panchali on Aug 11, 2020 10:18:09 GMT
What happened guys.. sending 🤗
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Post by ben545 on Aug 11, 2020 10:44:46 GMT
It's difficult to put into words how bad I feel right now. Maybe I am a monster. Oh that's bad.. I hope you're feeling a bit more okay now.. I feel sad and tired. The heat at night is something I can't deal with very good. I have a mobile air conditioning but that doesn't work like I wanted it to be. Also that thing makes a lot of noise. And we have new collegue wich immediatley speaks her mind in a way that isn't nice, she's my age but I feel like I dislike her. Childish and not acting her age, it quite annoys me tho. I just want you to know that I love you right now 💓 I've been put into a very difficult situation. I will explain when I am sober. Xxx
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Post by Panchali on Aug 12, 2020 17:28:57 GMT
Exhausted..
So hot and humid!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 12, 2020 17:46:12 GMT
Not very good tbh
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Post by Jinkxx on Aug 13, 2020 11:33:54 GMT
Yesterday was a fantastic day. Had a day of and went to a lake with my brother, sister in law and their 3 kids. I'm not that fond of kids since I don't know how to act with them around but I have 3 nephews and they're so cool, they like me! I don't have kids (I have heavy endometriosis wich sucks but that's a different story) so my nephews are the bomb! I played with them while they were in a boat you could fill with air while in the lake, we played with balls and later we had a bbq at my brothers house and it felt like vacation.
Now 1 day later I'm irritated as heck since the new collegue is making excuses that she is autistic and direct and can't keep her mouth shut. Sorry but that's making excuses for being plain rude. I dislike that at the fullest!
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Post by ben545 on Aug 13, 2020 16:33:58 GMT
Yesterday was a fantastic day. Had a day of and went to a lake with my brother, sister in law and their 3 kids. I'm not that fond of kids since I don't know how to act with them around but I have 3 nephews and they're so cool, they like me! I don't have kids (I have heavy endometriosis wich sucks but that's a different story) so my nephews are the bomb! I played with them while they were in a boat you could fill with air while in the lake, we played with balls and later we had a bbq at my brothers house and it felt like vacation. Now 1 day later I'm irritated as heck since the new collegue is making excuses that she is autistic and direct and can't keep her mouth shut. Sorry but that's making excuses for being plain rude. I dislike that at the fullest! That sounds great Jinkxx. I wish I got along with my family like that. Sounds cute that you are able to play with them and have fun. Still battling away at work. Annoying people don't last in my experience but waiting for them to either leave or change their behaviour can be a strain for sure. I did have to leave a couple of jobs I suppose because I was unable to get along with my boss so maybe that statement isn't true. Really crap advice lol! Sorry. What I mean is as long as they are not your superior it shouldn't matter too much.
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Post by Jinkxx on Aug 13, 2020 20:21:34 GMT
Thank you!! And yes I have a good relationship with my brother. My parents is a long story too.
But indeed the new colleague isn’t my boss so I try to ignore it a bit. I work for like 12 years at that company and she just 2 weeks and acts like she can say whatever she wants. Also to people from other departments. She’s demanding things she shouldn’t but my boss is a bit of a softy himself and doesn’t stand up for his team so we’ll see how this wil work out. My team is very small with 9 people and I work closely with 3 of them and with the new woman it makes 4 of them so that sucks a bit. I see her constantly. She told me last week in her first week that my backpain maybe is mental and I should visit a psychiatrist since maybe it’s not real pain... like: WTH?! You’re in your first week lady... calm down! I told a colleague about my back pain and what the doctor said and she just overheard us and said that... plain rude.
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