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Post by ben545 on Aug 21, 2020 16:47:38 GMT
I have not been feeling too good recently. Keep trying to take one day at a time and stay positive. Many thanks to Jinkxx for letting me discuss my current situation in private.
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Post by Jinkxx on Aug 24, 2020 8:36:24 GMT
I have not been feeling too good recently. Keep trying to take one day at a time and stay positive. Many thanks to Jinkxx for letting me discuss my current situation in private. Anytime!! I respond when I have time! It's best to take one day at a time indeed now! I'm very tired. Slept not good during the weekend and had some family drama and cause of the stress my muscles are feeling sore and I have pain while looking over my left shoulder.. Hope it will melt away otherwise I have to go to fysiotherapy.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 24, 2020 19:19:34 GMT
Home now. I feel much much better.
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Post by ★Caro★ on Aug 24, 2020 20:24:14 GMT
Pissed. Before doing me a favor, he’s always trying to make everyone else ‚happy‘....I can’t really explain how I feel again...lost might fit pretty good...
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ben545
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Post by ben545 on Aug 25, 2020 13:04:02 GMT
God, I feel terrible. Don't know what to do with myself. Got a couple of days off work.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 25, 2020 22:16:51 GMT
Kind of sad and frustrated I guess. I've been talking to my ex again and it's pretty obvious we still want each other's company. It kills me that we can't be together right now. He said he's "inviting" (his word) me to live with him once he's got his own house. That's pretty sweet but if we want to be realistic, it would take him a pretty long time. I told him that I want him to visit me in England, and he said "that's if I can afford it before you leave England" well yeah I'll finish school in around June 2021, but there's a chance for me to get the work visa for another 2 years, but it's really up to me to do whatever I want after I graduate. I was thinking of finding a job in where he lives but I know it will be hard...
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Post by Deleted on Aug 25, 2020 22:28:25 GMT
.... also I'm a bit pissed that Reddit is banned in my country!
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ben545
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Post by ben545 on Aug 26, 2020 7:32:13 GMT
I went out and got totally drunk last night drinking whiskey. I got talking to two school teachers. Really quite enjoyed myself. I think maybe it's time I joined 'tinder' to meet women.
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Post by Panchali on Aug 26, 2020 8:02:49 GMT
I’m just SOOO busy. Feeling good about it. :-)
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ben545
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Post by ben545 on Aug 26, 2020 14:36:18 GMT
Wow! Tinder is a bit of an eye opener. Who would have thought Chinese women are attracted to me. I never would have guessed.
Maybe it's some kind of scam? I haven't parted with any money yet. Just checking it out.
It intrinsically doesn't make any sense to me that you should have to pay to meet people.
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Post by Panchali on Aug 26, 2020 17:35:56 GMT
^^ Online dating apps are kind of scary. You never know what the person’s history is. Especially in my country.. not at all safe.
Thank God for the pandemic my parents aren’t pestering me to get married or making me meet/talk to guys 😂
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Post by Deleted on Aug 26, 2020 22:45:31 GMT
^^ Online dating apps are kind of scary. You never know what the person’s history is. Especially in my country.. not at all safe. Thank God for the pandemic my parents aren’t pestering me to get married or making me meet/talk to guys 😂 This hasn't happened to me yet, too, but I'm pretty sure it will someday lol. It will be sooooo annoying hahaha
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Post by Panchali on Aug 27, 2020 6:10:17 GMT
^^ Online dating apps are kind of scary. You never know what the person’s history is. Especially in my country.. not at all safe. Thank God for the pandemic my parents aren’t pestering me to get married or making me meet/talk to guys 😂 This hasn't happened to me yet, too, but I'm pretty sure it will someday lol. It will be sooooo annoying hahaha I’m almost 28 now so they are tensed about getting me married. Some of my friends got married right after college like around 22 and are with kids 😆 😂 We have mostly arranged marriages. You are still studying so you have time.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2020 9:40:59 GMT
This hasn't happened to me yet, too, but I'm pretty sure it will someday lol. It will be sooooo annoying hahaha I’m almost 28 now so they are tensed about getting me married. Some of my friends got married right after college like around 22 and are with kids 😆 😂 We have mostly arranged marriages. You are still studying so you have time. Well yeah I guess everybody's different, but sometimes my mom likes to tease me about not going out with anyone at my age.... I know she's half joking but I guess she kinda wants me to already have someone now. idk maybe that's just how asian parents work haha. My dad, not so much though.
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Post by Panchali on Aug 27, 2020 9:46:16 GMT
I’m almost 28 now so they are tensed about getting me married. Some of my friends got married right after college like around 22 and are with kids 😆 😂 We have mostly arranged marriages. You are still studying so you have time. Well yeah I guess everybody's different, but sometimes my mom likes to tease me about not going out with anyone at my age.... I know she's half joking but I guess she kinda wants me to already have someone now. idk maybe that's just how asian parents work haha. My dad, not so much though. True. But in India it’s a taboo if you aren’t married by 30. Also, I notice even though people have love marriages, arranged marriages are more successful for some reason. I guess love fizzles out, arrangement doesn’t? Also kids or even adults don’t tell parents they are seeing someone unless they want to get married.. telling parents is another task 😆 Whether families agree or not is another issue.
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