tirasayshello
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Post by tirasayshello on Sept 19, 2023 22:20:01 GMT
Just waiting for my knight in shining armor to get home from work. My life has been on pause for so long now, it feels impossible to keep going right now
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Jinkxx
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Post by Jinkxx on Sept 27, 2023 10:15:37 GMT
It makes me incredibly sad to realize that I was once very close to someone and I don’t mean a romantic relationship, this is friendship. But now there is nothing connecting us anymore. And even if we try, nothing will work, because we are no longer the same people we were before. How difficult it is to let go of all these happy memories. I didn't appreciate it before, but now that I no longer have such a person... Sadly I know exactly how you feel… I keep thinking about it but indeed, there’s no connection anymore and it doesn’t feel the same as before. I don’t get any excitement anymore when we message eachother for example. Only frustration, and when we talk about this it just doesn’t change so I might leave it for now.
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Post by katy on Sept 27, 2023 21:30:50 GMT
Bored. Our flight home is delayed and airports are BORING
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Post by veb on Sept 29, 2023 14:47:35 GMT
Conceptualize Your Idea how to make a video streaming website: Start by defining the purpose and niche of your video streaming platform. Will it focus on a particular genre, educational content, live streaming, or a combination of these? Understanding your target audience and unique selling points is crucial.
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Post by shessolucky on Oct 10, 2023 14:42:51 GMT
I feel relaxed and stressed at the same time. How is this even possible 😅🤷
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falling
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Post by falling on Oct 10, 2023 17:08:17 GMT
I feel relaxed and stressed at the same time. How is this even possible 😅🤷 Hi. I think I know what it's like, especially when I drink some beer... alcohol sucks
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Jinkxx
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Post by Jinkxx on Oct 15, 2023 16:01:17 GMT
I feel like I’m always the one who has to put in way more effort in friendships than my friends. Most of them are in a different era of their life with kids and such and I’m not, but if I don’t text or call I barely hear from them, even from the ones without kids. I love my friends but sometimes I’m sick of being that person who always have to be the first to say hello and make an appointment with them… sometimes I get real sad and start thinking that no one is thinking of me, but there can be weeks without contact while I miss them. Even if I tell them I miss them the situation doesn’t change much.
Oh and that other ‘friend’’ wich I called out and talked about to you guys, isn’t talking anymore.. a few weeks ago we did had a phonecall but she had to end it cause of her kids and she said she wouldn’t let me wait that long again, and here we are, 5 weeks later without any contact so I guess we’re done…so much for my happy ending.mp3. So I kinda feel alone.
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falling
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Post by falling on Oct 15, 2023 17:32:59 GMT
I feel like I’m always the one who has to put in way more effort in friendships than my friends. Most of them are in a different era of their life with kids and such and I’m not, but if I don’t text or call I barely hear from them, even from the ones without kids. I love my friends but sometimes I’m sick of being that person who always have to be the first to say hello and make an appointment with them… sometimes I get real sad and start thinking that no one is thinking of me, but there can be weeks without contact while I miss them. Even if I tell them I miss them the situation doesn’t change much. Oh and that other ‘friend’’ wich I called out and talked about to you guys, isn’t talking anymore.. a few weeks ago we did had a phonecall but she had to end it cause of her kids and she said she wouldn’t let me wait that long again, and here we are, 5 weeks later without any contact so I guess we’re done…so much for my happy ending.mp3. So I kinda feel alone. I understand you very much, I also have problems with friends. Unfortunately, I can’t give you any advice, because we are in the same boat. The best thing for me is just to be distracted, music, movies, crafts or cooking. I just want to wish you well.
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Jinkxx
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Post by Jinkxx on Oct 15, 2023 18:15:18 GMT
I feel like I’m always the one who has to put in way more effort in friendships than my friends. Most of them are in a different era of their life with kids and such and I’m not, but if I don’t text or call I barely hear from them, even from the ones without kids. I love my friends but sometimes I’m sick of being that person who always have to be the first to say hello and make an appointment with them… sometimes I get real sad and start thinking that no one is thinking of me, but there can be weeks without contact while I miss them. Even if I tell them I miss them the situation doesn’t change much. Oh and that other ‘friend’’ wich I called out and talked about to you guys, isn’t talking anymore.. a few weeks ago we did had a phonecall but she had to end it cause of her kids and she said she wouldn’t let me wait that long again, and here we are, 5 weeks later without any contact so I guess we’re done…so much for my happy ending.mp3. So I kinda feel alone. I understand you very much, I also have problems with friends. Unfortunately, I can’t give you any advice, because we are in the same boat. The best thing for me is just to be distracted, music, movies, crafts or cooking. I just want to wish you well. Thank you so much!! Your words are comforting and I’ll do the same, music, movies, gaming, work, it keeps me distracted. I really appreciate your words and I wish you all the best too, it sucks that we feel this way.
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Post by shessolucky on Oct 16, 2023 12:56:50 GMT
Lonely
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Post by Panchali on Oct 18, 2023 15:15:44 GMT
I feel like I’m always the one who has to put in way more effort in friendships than my friends. Most of them are in a different era of their life with kids and such and I’m not, but if I don’t text or call I barely hear from them, even from the ones without kids. I love my friends but sometimes I’m sick of being that person who always have to be the first to say hello and make an appointment with them… sometimes I get real sad and start thinking that no one is thinking of me, but there can be weeks without contact while I miss them. Even if I tell them I miss them the situation doesn’t change much. Oh and that other ‘friend’’ wich I called out and talked about to you guys, isn’t talking anymore.. a few weeks ago we did had a phonecall but she had to end it cause of her kids and she said she wouldn’t let me wait that long again, and here we are, 5 weeks later without any contact so I guess we’re done…so much for my happy ending.mp3. So I kinda feel alone. Actually it also happens because friendships mean different for different people. Some of my friends who are too family oriented, even before marriage - they were too involved with their parents.. for some friendship is just hanging out and passing time. A lot of people don’t get emotionally involved. I’m at similar stage of life like you and many of my friends got married around 21-23 years old and are with kids. Friendships do change. I hardly hang out with most of them. But I don’t miss it either. I still have a few friends but it’s more like we talk on the phone, that’s all.
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Jinkxx
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Post by Jinkxx on Oct 24, 2023 9:55:48 GMT
Yeah I miss some friends and want to hang out more often. I understand that's not always possible but still. You can grow with some friends too, but not with all of them. Some don't fit anymore for whatever reasons. That one friend I was very very close with just decided we weren't on the same level so our ways had to go different ways... I'm sad about that and also about the fact I still haven't got an answer on my problems with her that I addressed to her. I have a feeling that if I didn't told her those things that annoyed me, we would still be friends but then I wouldn't be honest with myself.. So there's that. You know your real friends when something like that happens.
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Post by shessolucky on Oct 24, 2023 10:45:20 GMT
Sad and mad
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Post by falling on Oct 24, 2023 10:59:14 GMT
Hi. I noticed that you often have negative emotions. If you want to talk, you can write to me. I myself just recently seemed like the saddest person in the world, but now a lot has changed, but I'm still learning. I just hope you get better soon.
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Post by Panchali on Oct 24, 2023 20:03:32 GMT
Yeah I miss some friends and want to hang out more often. I understand that's not always possible but still. You can grow with some friends too, but not with all of them. Some don't fit anymore for whatever reasons. That one friend I was very very close with just decided we weren't on the same level so our ways had to go different ways... I'm sad about that and also about the fact I still haven't got an answer on my problems with her that I addressed to her. I have a feeling that if I didn't told her those things that annoyed me, we would still be friends but then I wouldn't be honest with myself.. So there's that. You know your real friends when something like that happens. I agree with you. It hurts when a friendship ends.. especially if someone is really close to you. It’s really sad. Some drift apart on their own and it doesn’t feel that bad .
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